Night Owl - Not always easy to fall asleep

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My name is Derek and I am a night owl… Both of my parents are too, so it makes sense that I'm hard wired this way, but it can sometimes make for a long 'Time to Z' if I'm not careful.

 

I've found that the most important thing for me (by far) is avoiding bright lights, computer screens, and TVs in the hour leading up to bed. I'm a fan of the Power Down Hour and, even though I don't always hit the 20 minute intervals, it gives me direction. I've set a recurring silent alarm for my phone one hour before bed – I don't always see it, and it doesn't always stop me in my tracks when I do, but it serves as a subtle reminder that I need to be careful as bedtime approaches.

 

When I ignore what my body wants me to do and I find myself wired in bed (racing mind more than anything), there are a few things I've tried in the past…

- Brain dump – similar to the worry journal, I took the time to write down all of the thoughts that were racing through my brain… more often than not, things that I wanted to get done. I did this in the dark (to avoid lights), and it helped out a lot… I should do it more often.

- Got out of bed & read in low lighting – I've had good and bad experiences with this. Sometimes the books make my brain go faster, other times they make me ready for sleep. Book selection has a lot to do with this (but I have trouble reading something aimless… any suggestions?).

     

    Thoughts? Other suggestions?

    I've had the same issue but most of the time it is a 'self inflicted wound' as the result of staying up too late. Unfortunately the morning wake up time stays right where it is.

    On nights where I have trouble falling asleep I find that it helps to either figure out what's on my mind by writing it down(sometimes a simple task like making a to do list makes all of those random little things go away!), or by working on something somewhat taxing like logic problems until my brain is completely exhausted.

     

    I also find that, as cliche as it might sound, that a warm glass of milk about 1/2 an hour before bed really does the trick.

     

    Anybody have any other unique or interesting solutions to share?

    I discovered a device called Lite Book (litebook.com). Use of the special lamp helps regulate sleep inducing melatonin. The light emitted is confined to certain wavelength of natural sunlight. The recommended use of 30 minutes in the AM supports daytime awakeness and a regular nght time sleep pattern. Also TV screens and incandescent lamps emit wavelengths that damage sleep promoting melatonin. Use of dark glasses with filtering lens beginning about 1-2 hours before bedtime help reduce the undesirable wavelengths from these sources.

    +I spent some time buying and trying different 'blue blocker' sunglasses and didn't have much success so I spent some time researching filters and made my own for a few £.  They worked quite well.  I put them on a couple of hours before bedtime and after 30 mins I could feel myself relaxing.  If I woke up early in the morning, I'd put them on to work on my computer and take them off at getting up time.

    I don't use them now as my drug combinations knock meout all night, but it was an interesting project.

    There's some good info on sleep here:

    http://www.insomniastore.co.uk/understanding-sleep--insomnia-3-w.asp

    Info on Blue Blocking and sleep:

    http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/11/071112143308.htm

    Cheap blue blockers:

    myworld.ebay.co.uk/rodsnconesdotnet

    Best of luck with those ZZZZzzzzz....

    Kind Regards

    Steve

    capnodium said:

    I discovered a device called Lite Book (litebook.com). Use of the special lamp helps regulate sleep inducing melatonin. The light emitted is confined to certain wavelength of natural sunlight. The recommended use of 30 minutes in the AM supports daytime awakeness and a regular nght time sleep pattern. Also TV screens and incandescent lamps emit wavelengths that damage sleep promoting melatonin. Use of dark glasses with filtering lens beginning about 1-2 hours before bedtime help reduce the undesirable wavelengths from these sources.


     

    @capnodium brings up a good point, namely that the body reacts to changes in light levels; the brighter the light, the more your body says "hey, stay up" (or conversely, "hey go to bed!")!  There have even been a few recent studies about the color of the light--e.g. blue light vs yellow light--and how a difference in color can send different messages to your brain and body.  Personally, I'm a big fan of dim light in my bedroom; the brightest bulb I have in a lamp is 25 Watts and I'm no fan of overhead lights after it's dark out.  It makes it much easier to wind down and get into bed, not to mention keep me from staying up too late and then sleeping in the next morning.

    Even if you're a night owl, you can still get good quality, healthy sleep.  As mentioned in these posts, bright lights, controlling your mind and writing down your thoughts before bed are all important.  Here are a few other things that you may want to take a look at:

     

    1.  Ensure adequate break time before bed – Give yourself at
    least an hour to come down after watching T.V or working on the computer.

    2.  Regulate your bedroom temperature – Ideally, you
    want your bedroom between
    12 and 24 degrees Celsius (54-75 degrees Fahrenheit).

    3.  Stop the noise  - Get rid of unnecessary distractions
    before you go to bed.  Try to block
    out sounds from the street and the rest of the house.

    4.  Make
    your bedroom more sleep-friendly
     - Do whatever it takes to make your bedroom more comfortable
    - whether
    that’s using air conditioning, extra blankets or pillows, a heated blanket, heated
    lavender stuffed pets, blinds, curtains or earplugs, you need to find the ideal combination
    for yourself.

    5.  Your bed must be comfortable - Make sure your
    bed, blankets and pillow are comfy. 

    6.  Your bed is for Sleeping only (well,
    almost only)
    – Don’t watch T.V or play on the computer in (or before) bed.  Your mind needs to associate your
    bedroom with sleeping and nothing else – other than sex.

    7.  Keep pets out of the bedroom at night – As much as you love your dog, letting him sleep with you may be causing
    more harm than you know. 

     

    If you're going to read before bed, or get up and read because you can't sleep, you'll want to read something that doesn't require much brainpower.  Something mindless like poetry usually works well.

     

    Hope you find ZZZ promised land.

    Derek@Zeo's picture

    Thanks for the thoughts RaZZZ - 

     

    I eventually found my way to using light box therapy in the mornings. It's been a game-changer. Helps me feel better when I wake up and (more importantly) feel tired at the appropriate time at night. Longer blog post about it here: http://blog.myzeo.com/how-to-g.....ell-swoop/

     

    Now experimenting with cooler-than-usual bedroom temperatures... Will be a future post.

    I'm a night owl and a Zeo user.  What I use to help normalize my sleep pattern is bright blue light in the morning for 30 minutes, using a Feel Bright Light (http://www.feelbrightlight.com), which is a visor with a 8,000 or 10,000 lux light attached to the visor.  This is much more convenient for me than a light box, because I can immediately put on the visor upon awakening, and go about my morning routine. 

    At night I've been experimenting with wearing amber (blue light blocking) sunglasses for the last hour or so before bedtime.  I know that there are some studies that show that blue light in the morning and blue-light deprivation in the evening can help us night owls.  We'll see. Even if it is not a dramatic effect, a nudge in the right direction is good.