Cutting out noises of the world

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I'm a new Zeo user (just bought the mobile last week), but I've recognized being a poor sleeper for years.  I typically get between 5-6.5 hours when I work 5-6 days a week.  I'm in bed 1-2am-ish & asleep usually within 20 minutes & awaken shortly after 7am.  I use an 11-minute snooze, two to three times.  My days off, 1 or 2 per week depending, I often stay up late (I'm not tired) & chat with a friend on the computer until about 2am & wind down by about 2:30-3-ish.  I haven't much to do when I get up on a day off so I'm often in bed until 2-3pm.

I don't have a partner & I still live with my folks.

I am greatly bothered by any "man-made noise."  Essentially, this is any noise that could be stopped.  I get no traffic noise at home (when I'm away, it becomes troublesome).  However, the sound of someone walking on the floor above me (I have the "basement room") will drive me to near insanity if I don't have music playing to drown it out.  I can't ask them to stop.  Ear plugs don't fit in my ears, neither do ear buds.  I have big bulky "ear muffs" like that workers use while running a jackhammer.  This is fine for a short period of time, until either my back starts to ache or the side of my head aches from pressing down on the muffs.  I also fear that I won't hear my alarm & will be late for work.  Fortunately, my alarm clock has a fade-in feature & I'm two floors away from my folks so they aren't bother by the loud volume I have it set to.  Thus, I go to sleep after 1am when all noise has ended.

Frankly, I'm a combination of a lot of annoying problems.  It's so bad that  over the last few years when my folks & I have gone on vacation, I've started getting my own room because I absolutely cannot sleep if I hear someone snoring.

Essentially, I want to make the best of my approximate 6 hours of sleep.  From my first few days of using Zeo, I see in my first 2-3 hours, I'm more inclined to have more deep sleep & some REM sleep.  My long night of Saturday 2:30am night into Sunday noon showed me more REM between 7am & noon, while the deep sleep was contained to the first few hours.

I suppose what I'm looking for is suggestions to make the most out of what sleep I am getting. (I got a body pillow for Christmas that seem to be helping a bit, at least with my restlessness.)  Or if anyone has ideas for sound blockers that won't make me worry I'll miss my alarm in the morning.

Thanks all for staying throughout my ramble. :)

Could get a nice pair of sound-blocking headphones. Even if you don't want to listen to music it would block out a great chunk of background noise if you turn them on. Just have to make sure they're comfortable and durable enough to sleep in.

Lauren Miller's picture

flights, thanks for the suggestion.  I did a search & ran across these two items Sleep Phones, basically a headband with headphone speakers built-in.

I'd found a combo sleep mask & ear muffs, but I don't need the sleep mask.

Have you ever researched/implemented CBT-I? Things like good sleep hygiene, stimulus control, sleep restriction, cognitive restructuring, relaxation can all have a positive impact on sleep. I'm using this therapy right now and my sleep is improving. One of the biggest things to help our sleep system is to maintain a consistent bed/wake time. Use of this along with sleep restriction (only staying in bed the approximate time that you sleep) will strengthen your system and help consolidate sleep (in case you are waking up for extended periods of time).

I'd have to echo Sean's advice above. Good sleep hygiene can be the key to most of this. Blocking out noise with a white noise generator (download some sounds and run them all night) can help with the "quiet" part of hygiene. Getting a consistent wake time - same on days off as for days at work - will help drive the sleep you crave. You'll find yourself getting tired earlier in the night. Your deep sleep in the first part of the night followed by REM earlier in the morning is absolutely the way it works. And the earlier you get to bed, the better the chances of you getting more deep (restful) sleep.

I find that noise cancelling headphones can irritate me whilst I sleep so it can be hard to sleep properly. However, if you are a still sleeper who doesnt move too much, maybe using the headphones in tandem with memory foam pillows might be the answer for you. The foam pillow would hold your head in place meaning the phones shouldnt jump about too much. They may not be the best pillows for you but it could help